Navigating sexual health, pleasure, and relationships as a disabled or neurodivergent person can come with unique challenges (and wins!) - but you absolutely deserve access to resources, support, and joy in this space. Here is a curated list of Australia-wide resources, services, and people doing the work (with a focus on accessibility, inclusion, and real-life support).

Sexual Health Stores & Products

Adult Bliss

Adult Bliss is an Adelaide-based sexual wellness store with a focus on accessible pleasure products. The space is welcoming, with a wide variety of options, friendly staff who invite questions, and a ramp-access entrance.
You can find out more at:

 Adult Bliss Website

• Instagram: @adultbliss.au

Modibodi

Modibodi produces period and incontinence underwear, swimwear, and activewear- making menstruation and continence care more accessible, comfortable, and affirming for people of all genders and abilities.

You can find out more at:

 Modibodi Website

• Instagram: @modibodi

By Storm Beauty

Storm Menzies is developing adaptive beauty tools for disabled folks, striving for greater accessibility in everyday routines. Beauty is a part of how we express ourselves and relate to others, all incredibly important to our overall sexual health.

Plus, if you ask me (DE/sexology hat here!)- these tools are great adaptive tech for sex toys, changing batteries, opening packaging, the works.

You can find out more at:

 By Storm Beauty Website

• Instagram: @bystorm.beauty
• Tiktok: @bystom.beauty 
• Email: [email protected]

Education, Therapy & Support Providers

My Friend in Sex Ed

Niamh Mannion (AuDHD, Developmental Educator & Sexologist) offers inclusive, accessible sex education that’s fun, practical, and evidence-based. Their content includes bite-sized social media posts, downloadable resources, blogs, webinars, and professional development.

You can find out more at:

 My Friend in Sex Ed Website

• Instagram: @myfriendinsexed

Spark Connection

Spark Connection is the partnership between Frank Chats with Alicia and My Friend in Sex Ed, offering resources, events, and professional development focused on disability, sexuality, and relationships. Including resources such as: Spark Conversation Cards and events such as: the Disability, Sexuality & Everything In Between Conference.

You can find out more at:

 Spark Connection Website

• Instagram: @spark_connection

CRUSH Therapy

Kate (OT & Sexologist) provides practical, affirming support for neurodivergent and disabled folks, covering regulation, daily life, relationships, consent, and sexuality. Their resources prioritise safety, autonomy, and self-compassion.

You can find out more at:

 CRUSH Therapy Website

• Instagram: @crushtherapy.au

Pleasure Pixel

Casey Payne (Neurodivergent Sexologist & Counsellor) delivers trauma-informed, accessible sexual health education and counselling, making information easy to understand and use.

You can find out more at:

 Pleasure Pixel Website

• pleasurepixel.com.au
• Instagram: @pleasure_pixel

Neurokinnection & ND Couple Retreats

Lil (AuDHD Clinical Psychologist) supports Autistic and ADHD relationships, sex, and intimacy, offering both individual and group support.

You can find out more at:

 Neurokinnection Website

• Instagram: @neurokinnection
• Couple Retreats: https://www.nk-intimacy-alchemy.com.au/ndcoupleretreats

Neurotopical Therapy

Amelia (AuDHD Social Worker) provides therapy for the autistic and ADHD community, taking a holistic, anti-oppressive, trauma-informed approach and welcoming all the “off-limits” topics.

You can find out more at:

 Neurotopical Therapy Website

• Instagram: @neurotopicaltherapy

Your Body, Your Story, Your Way

Jazz Slattery (Developmental Educator) facilitates Period Power workshops and body kindness education for girls and women, including those with disabilities, in fun, safe, neuro-affirming spaces.

You can find out more at:

 Jazz Slattery's Website

• Instagram: @jazz_slattery

Charlie Jayde

Charlie Jayde (he/him) offers peer mentoring for trans and gender-diverse youth, kink/BDSM education for disability support providers, and business consultation on gender inclusivity and NDIS communications.

You can find out more at: 

• Email: [email protected]

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Meg Callander

Meg is an experienced sexologist, counsellor, and Dateability facilitator who is passionate about making sex and relationships feel accessible, affirming, and easier to talk about. She’s all about curiosity, human connection, and ditching the shame. 

Meg is based in Naarm/Melbourne and loves working with all abilities, ages and identities.

You can find out more at:

Meg Callander's Website

Advocacy & Community Organisations

Touching Base

A national organisation supporting the rights of people with disability to access sex workers and sexual expression. Offers resources, referral lists, and education for both clients and professionals.

You can find out more at:

 Touching Base Website

• Facebook: Touching Base Inc

The Rainbow Rights and Advocacy Council

A self-advocacy group run by and for people with intellectual disability who identify as LGBTIQA+, supporting rights, relationships, and sexual health.

You can find out more at:

 The Rainbow Rights and Advocacy Council Website

• Instagram: @rainbowrightsandadvocacy
  
  
  

Research, Education & Representation

Kim Andreassen

Kim (they/them) is a neurodivergent, chronically ill sexologist and PhD candidate, researching accessible consent education for disabled youth and advocating for inclusion and diversity in sex education.

You can find out more at:

 Kim Andreassen's Website

• Instagram: @the_autistic.rse.educator

Media, Podcasts & Series

Under the Covers Series on Youtube - Northcott Innovation

A campaign created to highlight all things disability and sexuality from the perspectives of people with disabilities.

 Under the Covers Series - Youtube

Latecomers (SBS On Demand)

Latecomers is a bold, funny, and refreshingly real TV series following two disabled people who meet in a bar and embark on a journey of sexual discovery, friendship, and self-acceptance.

 Latecomers - SBS On Demand

A Wheelie Good Sex Chat (Care Rehab)

A Wheelie Good Sex Chat is a podcast series featuring candid conversations with disabled people about everything from relationships and sexuality to independence and daily life, hosted by Candice Care-Unger from Care Rehab.

 A Wheelie Good Sex Chat - Spotify

PS Note on Mainstream Services & Creative Supports

While many of these resources are tailored for disabled and neurodivergent folks, lots of mainstream products and services can also be incredibly helpful, empowering and cost-effective.

For example, many lubricant companies now offer a range of formulas with different scents and textures - great for people with sensory needs, preferences or allergies. Or your local pillow and cushion brands (think: body pillows, wedge cushions, or even pregnancy pillows) these can all work brilliantly as positioning aids for comfort and access during intimacy and help with both your sexual health and sexual journey.

Sometimes, it’s just as much about getting creative and finding what works best for your body and your needs, than finding disability-specific tools (because no one thing works for every body). You deserve it to get creative, get to know yourself and to experience sexual wellbeing.