The season to be jolly and the team at Adult Bliss Erotica was feeling festive and Santa-mental, we wanted to encourage everyone to think of how to spice up the Christmas season. With a little imagination, creating some Kinky Christmas magic can be a simple pleasure to share with your romantic partner, or loved one for a, not so silent, night.

Starting with traditional role playing, dressing up as Santa and Mrs Claus, Santa and a naughty elf, Mrs Claus and a naughty elf even. If group scenarios are more your speed Santa Claus, Mrs Claus and any number of elves can join in the festivities. Some people enjoy animal play, and Christmas can be a great time to explore some reindeer games together or even enjoy Rudolph's red nose. Even without complicated costumes there are plenty of options in the lingerie department. There is nothing wrong with a present having a simple bow on top, instead of extravagant wrapping paper. 

Christmas is a time for cooking delicious food and sprucing your surrounding with fun decorations. While in the kitchen it is easy enough to whip up some extra icing to use with a partner, since food is a delicious and fun way to add some sugar and spice to the bedroom. If body safety is a concern there is always the opportunity to explore flavoured lubricants, why not mix and match flavours to form festive combinations. During Shibari and bondage sessions, adding tinsel and baubles is a great way of adding a festive kick to photos, and can add some artistic fun to a shoot. An added bonus is that these shots can be used to spruce up your private spaces next festive season.

Why not make some Christmas-themed impact implements? A tree-shaped paddle might leave some interesting patterns, wrap it in coloured rope for some texture and make it look decorated with tinsel. Bauble-like monkeys fists, a tinsel flogger, Santa’s reindeer whip… the ideas are endless. This isn't a suggestion to overload your life with festive kink, rather that Christmas is a time for connection and love, what better way to show some love than finding ways to connect with your partner. Or if being single is your thing, showing yourself love during the holidays, in whatever way that makes you feel the happiest. 

Public play parties and swingers events often have holiday themed events, turning up to one of these parties in festive style is a great conversation starter with new potential partners. Strip clubs and events always pop up this time of year with Christmas-themed events. Some couples might enjoy a trip to the local club as a way to start a night of fun. Getting aroused in an (appropriate) public setting, then heading home to take advantage of the festive mood, is a great option for a different kind of date night. If starting in public seems intimidating, there is plenty of Christmas, and festive, themed porn available on the market. Dress up, or down, get comfortable and enjoy a different kind of holiday movie.

Even the local adult store will be getting in the spirit of the season, you'll often find some great festive themed items, and maybe even a new gift or two for a special someone. Speaking of gifts, while shopping around it could be a great time to pick up a gift or two for yourself. Grab a new toy, throw on some red, white or green lingerie, add a Santa hat or some jingle balls to the mix, or even reindeer antlers. There is no limit to how jolly this season can be, the only things necessary are an open mind and some Christmas spirit. 

Regardless of any person's religious or cultural background, for many, this time of year is about sharing love, connection and kindness. Connecting physically with your partner is just one way of sharing love and kindness during the silly season. Again, for the single, or poly, members of the community, there are different kinds of love we can share, other than romantic love, go out and share all of the festive cheer that makes you happy. Don't end up on the naughty list this year, celebrate with love, kindness and respect for yourself, and for others. 

From the team at Adult Bliss Erotica, we wish you Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year.