Hi. I’m MJ, an African American, pansexual woman in a heterosexual marriage and the mom

of two boys. I’m passionate about raising my boys in a sex-positive household while fully

aware that I’ll make tons of mistakes as I learn more about sexual health and sexuality

myself. I believe that everyone has a right to a healthy and pleasurable sexual life, no matter

age, race, ability, or sexual orientation. As long as everyone involved is an adult and has

given informed consent, well then… “Play on!” I am currently undertaking a master's in

sexology, hoping to bring sex ed and awareness to every little corner I can reach so that

sexual health and sexuality are as openly discussed as any other aspect of health. Under my

name, you’ll find articles on sexual health, sex and intimacy, with the occasional musings

about a topic from class, race and sex, and the occasional reviews. This blog is more of an

opinion piece than medical information, so please always consult a health practitioner when

in doubt.