Best Sex Toys For Beginners: Where to start!
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So you have been all over our online store and you’re just not sure, you haven’t had a vibrator or sex toy before and you have no idea what to expect. Are we close? Well if you want to make the right choice for your Best Sex Toys For Beginners, our best advice is to come in-store, we are friendly and we promise we won’t bite!
Where to start
But if your still a little nervous after reading our About Page or if you live just a little too far away to make it in-store then here is a list of sex toys for beginners just for you. No matter what your sexual orientation or relationship status we have a best-first-time-sex-toys for all!
Lubricant!!
People don’t often believe us when we say Lubricant is the best sex toy, but it is! Don’t just take our word for it though, we strongly believe that lubricant can improve any sexual encounter whether there is penetration or not.
Studies have shown that 70% of people that use lubricant for the first time say that they found the experience much more enjoyable and can climax easier with lubricant.
Lube is your friend
Even if your body provides enough natural lubrication, adding a little extra goes a long way!
Below is a list of our favourite lubricants and we strongly recommend when using any toy lubricant is the way to go! Want to find out more? Visit our blog on Lubricant here.
First Time Rabbit Vibrator (Internal AND External Stimulation)
Satisfyer
The whole Satisfyer Range is incredible! But what makes this particular product great is its size, shape and flexibility. The Satisfyer Mono Flex is made from silky smooth silicone, it’s flexible and soft, and has a fairly simple shape. Sporting 2 powerful motors (one in the shaft and one in the clitoral stimulator) it’s surprisingly compact! It is one of the best sex toys for beginners.
Waterproof, USB Rechargeable and reasonably priced! This is the perfect first-time Rabbit Vibrator for people willing to spend a little extra for quality, and with a 12-month warranty and quality guarantee, it might just be the last vibrator you ever need!
Ashella
The Ashella range is another one of our personal faves,
It’s not very often you come across a good quality rechargeable and easy to use products for under $100 but Ashella is one of the exceptions! This is one of the better sex toys for beginners. Covered with a smooth and spongey silicone coating with a flexible rabbit stimulator, this petite and ridged design will give you the precision you need to find just the right spot and focus on what important! And they don't just do rabbits, they have a bunch of toys for you to explore!
The Ashella range is packed full of power with a great playtime and are fully USB rechargeable and waterproof, easy three-button functions make it a breeze to use and as always with our rechargeable products 12 months warranty!
First Time G-spot Vibrators (Internal OR External Stimulation)
You might be wondering, what are the pros and cons of a rabbit vibe versus a straight vibrator? or what even is the difference? The difference often comes down to the type of stimulation you prefer. If you find your self getting to climax only with clitoral stimulation during penetrative sex then a rabbit vibe is for you!
Internal and external stimulation
If you’re the kind of person that needs internal stimulation and maybe you have an extra sensitive clitoris then a G-spot vibe (without a rabbit or clitoral stimulator) might be better. With a G-spot vibe like the ones below you can choose whether to stimulate externally or penetrate with the shaft, its all about options!
Romp
Most G-spot vibrators are quite rigid,
This is what sets the ROMP Hype G-spot vibrator apart from the rest! This rechargeable waterproof vibrator is super flexible and amazingly soft.
Starting off with a perfectly angled head for G-spot stimulation This G-spot vibrator is special: thanks to the ergonomic shape and the particularly soft tip, Hype ensures particularly intense orgasms.
Honestly, one of the funkiest and most modern vibrators with a pretty sweet price tag we have ever seen, the quality of the Hype vibrator is up there with the best but it comes with a price tag that makes it one of the best first-time sex toy products!
ROMP has a whole range of great first-time product worth checking out within a beginner price range and all have a great 12-month warranty!
Small Bullet Vibrators (External Stimulators)
We-Vibe
The We-Vibe Touch x and Tango x are two of our best clitoral stimulators! They are both extremely strong with low-frequency rumbly vibrations and have a variety of settings. They are also USB Rechargeable and fully Waterproof. Generally,
We wouldn’t recommend something this expensive as a first-time sex toy but we can safely say they have amazing customer satisfaction and are most likely the first and last small vibrator you will ever need!
The Tango is coated in a hard ABS plastic making it perfect for light and tingly stimulation while the Touch in coated in a smooth medical-grade silicone make it soft and flexible. Both toys are perfect for external clitoral and erogenous stimulation and come with a 12-month warranty.
Lady Bonnd
The Lady Bonnd Erryn is most likely our best selling small vibrator, but it sells out fast!
Not only is it super powerful with variable speeds that you can ease into, but its extremely good quality medical grade silicone coating and long-lasting rechargeable battery ticks all of our boxes! All things you are looking for when looking for sex toys for beginners.
So Erryn is not quite a bullet and not quite and full-sized vibe, its somewhere in the middle, making it great for clitoral stimulation, but also for shallow penetration. Easy to operate with one function button and an indicator light on the base.
Lay-ons!
This is what we call a lay-on! It’s a leaf-shaped product designed for external stimulation. Some people find bullets a bit too targeted in design so we recommend Lay-ons to customers who prefer to spread their stimulation out.
A great lay-on to start with that doesn't break the bank is the Romp Wave. This toy has 6 intensity levels, 4 patterns, is rechargeable and waterproof! If you are looking for great sex toys for beginners that are versatile, Go with a lay-on.
A lay on will not target one specific point, rather spreading deep penetrating vibrations out over a larger surface area!
This is great for people with really sensitive erogenous zones. for example, some women prefer full labia stimulation rather than just clitoris, and some Men prefer to stimulate the prostate externally rather than penetrating the anus. Lay-ons are also fantastic for gender diverse people because of their more ambiguous shape that tends to feel less awkward!
FAQs
Why should I use lubricant?
Studies have shown that 70% of people that use lubricant for the first time say that they found the experience much more enjoyable and can climax easier with lubricant. Lubricant can make both yours and your partners experience much more enjoyable so why wouldn't you want to use it?!
What is a rabbit?
A rabbit vibrator, usually called a rabbit. Is a vibrating toy that stimulates both the inside and the outside. Most commonly used by people with a vagina to target both the internal and external g-spots. The name rabbit comes from the end that stimulates the external g-spot because on early models the end had two prongs that resembled rabbit ears. Some still have these and others have branched out into other designs.
What brands are good for beginners?
Some of the brands that we recommend for a beginner are: Satisfyer, Ashella and Romp. All these brands are good quality but don't break the bank when your starting out. You don't want to jump in the deep end when starting out and you don't know what you like.
Why shouldn't I spend a lot of money on my first toy?
Usually we will not recommend spending a lot of money on your first toy incase you don't like it. But the amount you have available for your first toy will be relative to your situation. For some, $100 for your first toy is insane, for others that's a good price, and others might want to spend even more.
Setting a budget for your first toy can help both you and our staff help find the right toy for you.
I want internal stimulation but not external. What toy should I get?
If you’re the kind of person that needs internal stimulation and maybe you have an extra sensitive clitoris then a G-spot vibe (without a rabbit or clitoral stimulator) might be better. With a G-spot vibe you can choose whether to stimulate externally or penetrate with the shaft, its all about options!
I don't want a rabbit vibrator, but still want clitoral stimulation. What should I get>
If you don't want to use a rabbit vibrator but still want external simulation there are a couple of options that are great for beginners.
One of these is a bullet vibrator, this is a small 'bullet' shaped vibrator that is used to provide more direct external stimulation. A great toy to look at would be the Lady Bonnd Erryn.
Another option would be a lay-on vibe. These toys are designed to provide external stimulation to a wider area and not be a direct stimulation like a bullet vibrator. A great beginner option for a lay-on would be the Romp Wave.
