Get Friend Zoned!

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When you use sex toys alone, you’re the only person you have to please. You can do whatever you like without worrying about whether your partner is comfortable or enjoying it as much as you are. However, when you decide to shop at adult stores in Adelaide for toys to use together, there are some specific things to keep in mind to help ensure a fun and satisfying experience for both of you.

Shop together. If you know what your partner likes, then you may be able to surprise them with a new sex toy – and this approach can be lots of fun. However, if you aren’t sure where to start, do the legwork together. It’s important to communicate your ideas, fantasies, preferences, and expectations and respect each other’s boundaries. You can turn the experience of shopping for a new toy into a bonding experience – and don’t be surprised if it functions as foreplay, too.
Choose the right lube. When it comes to sex – all types of sex – lube is your friend. Not only does it make things go more smoothly, but it can also improve sensations and increase your pleasure during sex. When you’re using lube with sex toys, though, there is one caveat: it must be compatible with the toy you’re using. Silicone lube will ruin your silicone toys, so look for a water-based product to use instead. (If you love silicone lube, as many people do, go ahead and buy some from your local Adelaide adult store – just save it for your toy-free encounters.)
Start slow and amp things up as desired. If one or both of you are new to adult toys, you’ll want to experiment a little to start discovering what you like and how you like it. You might want to use a new toy alone first so that you know what to expect. Or you might want to let your partner watch you use it on yourself or let them use it on you right from the beginning. Your “learning session” will not only be hot, but it will also give you both a better idea of what’s pleasurable for you.
Try using toys together and separately. Don’t underestimate the pleasure of a good mutual masturbation session. It’s such a good opportunity to relax and focus on your own pleasure while still being intimate with your partner. It can also be extremely hot to see and hear your partner enjoying themselves while you enjoy yourself. Mutual masturbation can also be a lifesaver when you’re too tired to have sex but still want to share some intimacy or just help yourself to some momentary pleasure and stress relief.